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Ask Dan and Jennifer: I Fantasize About Being A Prostitute!

Posted in Ask Dan and Jennifer, Sex on December 31, 2008 by swingantho

Sexipedia: An Interview with its Founder – Chris Anderson

Posted in adult, Chris Anderson, interview, Sex, Sexipedia with tags , , on December 19, 2008 by swingantho

SEXIPEDIA  is the world’s largest encyclopedia of sex.  It’s an exciting project, and Jolie was fortunate enough to get an interview with its founder Chris Anderson. 

(One of the most exciting facts Jolie learned about Chris is that he is an autodidact, or a self-taught person, who only reaches for success.  Jolie can relate to that.)


1. Sexipedia is “The Encyclopedia of Sex.”  What inspired you to create the encyclopedia?

What inspired me has been three things: sharing one’s knowledge, sex (in the broader meaning of the term), and mass collaboration.

I am an autodidact, a knowledge lover who enjoys listening, reading, watching and finally learning from anyone’s knowledge and experiences they had through life. That is purely fascinating to me.

Several months ago, I was thinking: Where would I get all the detailed information and trusted knowledge I need to know about sex? I tracked down and studied websites and realized that none of the websites were  actually satisfying enough nor offered what I wanted. I wondered why there was not a website that could share anyone’s knowledge about sex.  I quickly came up with my favorite answer: If it doesn’t exist, I’ll create it.

I have in me this entrepreneurial and hard worker spirit that challenges me to create and build new things every day, all day long. I looked for the best tool to share one’s knowledge about a specific topic with the world, and realized that the more appropriate solution was to use a wiki; the one that runs Wikipedia.

And here we are today with Sexipedia, the encyclopedia of sex that anyone can edit.

2. What is your background and why do you have an interest in sexuality?

Although I studied and worked for a few years in the entertainment industry in France, I would say that my strengths and background are in the online technology industry. I am a Managing Editor for an important multi-national group, and we report daily on high-tech and Internet usage.  This kind of environment is an overflowing pool of ideas for me.

My interest in sexuality is biological. It’s in me. I can’t quite define it today. It’s simply a strong attraction and a natural interest.

3. What can people expect with Sexipedia?  When will the website be operational? Will Sexipedia be in print form also, or online only?

People should expect an encyclopedia of sex, and take into consideration that the high quality content that is offered is done so in an open environment where anyone can read, edit and post articles. Also, Sexipedia is a collaborative encyclopedia powered by volunteers and dedicated individuals. So people should also expect from Sexipedia what they are willing to invest in it.

Sexipedia is at a very early stage of creation. Every day after work (sometimes during work), myself and others dedicate as many hours as we can to improve Sexipedia. Today, Sexipedia is in private beta and members are able to read, edit, and post as many articles as they wish. The public version requires the website to reach a certain maturity in order to welcome everyone.

I haven’t developed an idea of a print form for Sexipedia yet.

4. What are your other interests and what are your plans for the future?

My interests right now are all focused on Sexipedia. I devote 100% of my free time working and improving the site. Let’s see what the future brings us. I tend to only reach for success.

American Swing Clubs – Common Rules

Posted in Sex, swing club, swinger, swinging with tags , , , on December 11, 2008 by swingantho

American Swing Clubs – Common Rules
Swinging at a swing club means following the rules. Here are five of the most common.
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The Romantic Strip Tease

Posted in Sex with tags , , on December 5, 2008 by swingantho

The Romantic StripTease!


Have you ever fantasized about being a stripper? Have you ever thought it would be cool to do a striptease for your lover? Well, guess what? You’re not alone!

Truth be told, many women have this same fantasy. Many more have even “busted a move” for their lover. Sound like fun? It sure is! Plus, the Romantic Striptease is an awesome way to show your lover just how sexy you’re feeling. And take it from me, he will agree with you 100%.

Of course anytime you remove your own clothes in front of your lover there’s sure to be “fireworks”. But lets do something special. Let’s treat your lover. Let’s plan an actual Romantic Striptease.

So, what’s needed to make the Romantic Striptease a success? Let’s have a look.

First and foremost, as mentioned in my book “the Romantic Tips Guide” you do not have to be a professional dancer to do this. It’s all about having fun and spending some quality time with each other!

Next, is music selection. Keep in mind you and your partners taste. The music you choose needs to be a bit on the slow side. Not too slow and draggy, but slow enough so you will be able to take your time removing your clothes one piece at a time and really Tease.

Speaking of clothing, you’ll have to plan what to wear. And, you won’t need to go shopping either. Well…not unless you want to. 😉 It is best to start off fully dressed. After all it is called a “Strip TEASE”. Removing layers is much more fun, and exciting. A sexy dress, or blouse and skirt, choose an outfit that always turns your partner on. You know, the one where he just can’t keep his hands off you. Then for underneath that, choose a couple more things. A pretty camisole, over a sexy bra. On the bottom put a pair of sexy skimpy panties over a pair of thongs. Eventually you’ll be removing it all, one piece at a time. Remember, anything that drive’s your sweetie wild, and whatever makes you feel sexy and desirable is in order here. You can pretty much choose whatever’s in your closet for the outer layer. A good, “naughty” choice is always the schoolgirl look, or you could go for the button-down business look. A tie would later make a great prop. Just think about looping it behind his head to pull him into your breasts.

Then accessorize. This includes anything like glasses, hats, ties, as well as the all-important thigh highs, (or garter belt and stockings) and stiletto heels. Just make sure you can actually move around and dance in those stilettos. If you don’t have any in your closet, borrow a pair from a friend. Also long necklaces look amazing when you’re down to the bare essentials, plus long gloves and feather boas are great accessories too.

Place a chair some where in your bedroom where you will have easy access to move all around it. Of course it’s for your sweetie to sit on and watch as you dazzle him with your StripTease. Also, chill some of your lover’s favorite beverage. Wine or champagne would be great. You could have some fresh fruit like strawberries or grapes to feed your lover as you dance up a storm. Just remember to take it slow and easy.

When the time comes to do your Romantic StripTease remove one piece of clothing at a time, making sure to linger on each piece. Give it a try, I promise you and your lover will have great fun. Oh yeah and great sex as well!

Best Of Luck!

Marie Clare

About the Author:

Marie Clare specializes in writing about Dating Relationships and Romance. Check out her lastest Best Selling eBook “the Ultimate Online Dating Handbook” plus reviews of the Best Online Dating Sites FREE Articles Tips and Advice at

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Toy Box

Posted in Sex with tags , , on November 25, 2008 by swingantho

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Book Report – Sex Toys 101 – A Playfully Uninhibited Guide
By Rachel Venning and Claire Cavanah (Founders of Toys in Babeland)

More and more, sex toys (vibrators, dildos, etc) are coming out of the box and out in the open. We’re talking about them more and we’re using them more. Indeed, women like Rachel Venning and Claire Cavanah, the founders of Toys in Babeland – encourage us to embrace our sexuality and to experiment with toys.

We’re a fun-loving, feminist sex toy store, celebrating sexual vitality and educating our community. Women and vibrators go together like kitties and catnip, yet most places that sell sex toys make women uncomfortable. At Toys in Babeland, we have created an environment where women feel welcome.

Sex Toys 101 is a workshop offered at Toys in Babeland.  The book Sex Toys 101 is offered as a way to share the information to more people than those who can take the workshop.

I found Sex Toys 101 is as beautiful as a coffee table book, with lovely full color photographs and an attractive, easy layout of information.

What’s inside the book?

Recipe for Delight (How to Lick Pussy) – Page 19

Feel the Burn, Baby (Make Your Orgasms Stronger) – Page 23

Meet The Vibrators – Page 44

Gearing Up For Getting Down (Dildos and Strap-Ons) – Page 60

Getting Past The Anal Taboo – Page 91

BDSM Safety Suggestions – Page 136

Do Lesbians Really Need to Have Safe Sex? – Page 165

And much, much, much more.

In Sex Toys 101, there’s something for anyone – male, female, gay or straight.



Talking Dirty

Posted in Sex with tags on October 20, 2008 by swingantho

Talking Dirty by Julia Tanner

Everyone knows what a sexy voice is, but do you know how to find yours?

Talking deeply isn’t enough, nor do you need to smoke a pack of cigarettes a day either. This part is all about your attitude and your ability to relax in the moment.

Start with your breathing. Think about how you are breathing at the moment. Is it quick or is it slow? Your voice should move with this rhythm. With quick breaths, you want to break up your sentences, and with longer breaths, you can give more details.

Talk like you were trying to whisper, but ran out of breath. Your voice may drop a notch by doing this.

Or you can just relax and talk a little more quietly to get the same effect.

What Am I Going To Say?

If you’ve never talked dirty, then this is going to be an eye-opening experience. And you’re going to feel a bit strange at first, but that’s normal.

Think about the things that you love about the other person. Is it a particular body part? That’s great, you can use that.

You can start with something like, “I love your (whatever body part you choose)” at first. This gets you warmed up and everyone likes a compliment. This will also show the other person that you’re going to talk a bit.

You aren’t answering a question, so try no to use the word ‘because.’ You don’t have to give a reason, you just love something.

But you can say what that particular body part is doing to your body. Slow it down and lengthen the talk out. Start with “I love your (whatever body part).” Take a pause and then finish with, “It makes my (choose your favourite sexual organ) hot/wet/choose your reaction.”

Tell them how they make you feel in explicit detail and watch their reaction.

You’re well on your way to being a pro at dirty talk.

As a side note, some folks like to use words that may be derogatory, but I would make sure that the other person doesn’t mind before you try them.

Some will be very offended and that isn’t a good way to start a lovely evening.

Getting Comfortable

Why many people don’t use dirty talk is because they think they sound silly and that’s just not the case.

As with anything new, you just need to jump in and try it. Everyone has a first time for everything, and since you’re in a safe environment, no one is going to laugh at you.

Saying anything that is related to sex in the heat of an already arousing moment will sound magical. You just need to spit it out a few times to get comfortable with saying it.

After a while, dirty talk will come naturally and your partner of the moment will love it.